The Secret History
Donna Tartt
Average Goodreads rating4.1
- Coming of Age
- Morally Grey Characters
Book trope · 28 books
Obsession & Desire Trope
Some love stories simmer. This one burns. The Obsession & Desire trope centres on a character whose feelings for another cross the line from longing into something far more consuming — a fixation that colours every thought, every decision, every quiet moment alone.
More about the Obsession & Desire trope28 Obsession & Desire books
22 are tagged with Obsession & Desire individually. The others belong to a series tagged with it, which doesn’t mean every book in it features the trope, so they’re marked “Matched via its series”.
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Rock Paper Scissors
Alice Feeney
Average Goodreads rating3.9
- Multiple POV
- Deception
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If We Were Villains
M. L. Rio
Average Goodreads rating4.1
- Coming of Age
- Morally Grey Characters
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Beautiful Ugly
Alice Feeney
Average Goodreads rating3.6
- Deception
- Twist Ending
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Verity
Colleen Hoover
Average Goodreads rating4.5
- Psychological Thriller
- Twist Ending
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The Fury
Alex Michaelides
Average Goodreads rating3.4
- Twist Ending
- Dark Secrets
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Behind Her Eyes
Sarah Pinborough
Average Goodreads rating3.8
- Love Triangle
- Twist Ending
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A Stranger in the House
Shari Lapena
Average Goodreads rating3.7
- Deception
- Domestic Suspense
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The Girl Before
J. P. Delaney
Average Goodreads rating3.7
- Twist Ending
- Dark Secrets
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Someone We Know
Shari Lapena
Average Goodreads rating3.9
- Multiple POV
- Deception
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Don't You Cry
Mary Kubica
Average Goodreads rating3.5
- Multiple POV
- Deception
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My Husband's Wife
Alice Feeney
Average Goodreads rating4.3
- Deception
- Twist Ending
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Nocticadia
Keri Lake
Average Goodreads rating4.4
- Forbidden Romance
- Morally Grey Characters
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Dead in the Water
John Marrs
Average Goodreads rating3.9
- Protagonist with Trauma
- Psychological Thriller
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Believe Me
J. P. Delaney
Average Goodreads rating3.7
- Secret Identity
- Twist Ending
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Second Life
S. J. Watson
Average Goodreads rating3.3
- Deception
- Twist Ending
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Gothikana
RuNyx
Average Goodreads rating4.3
- Forbidden Romance
- Morally Grey Characters
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Dead to Her
Sarah Pinborough
Average Goodreads rating3.3
- Morally Grey Characters
- Deception
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The New Wife
J. P. Delaney
Average Goodreads rating3.3
- Twist Ending
- Dark Secrets
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Getting Away with Murder
Shari Lapena
- Moral Awakening
- Morally Grey Characters
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The Maidens
Alex Michaelides
- Secret Society
- Twist Ending
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The Perfect Wife
J. P. Delaney
- Twist Ending
- Artificial Intelligence (AI)
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Anathema
Keri Lake
The Eating Woods, book 1
Average Goodreads rating4.4
Matched via its series
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You
Caroline Kepnes
You, book 1
Average Goodreads rating4.2
Matched via its series
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Eldritch
Keri Lake
The Eating Woods, book 2
Average Goodreads rating4.4
Matched via its series
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Hidden Bodies
Caroline Kepnes
You, book 2
Average Goodreads rating4.3
Matched via its series
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You Love Me
Caroline Kepnes
You, book 3
Average Goodreads rating4.3
Matched via its series
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For You And Only You
Caroline Kepnes
You, book 4
Average Goodreads rating3.8
Matched via its series
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Tropes that share the most books with Obsession & Desire
Series with the Obsession & Desire trope
2 series- The Eating Woods Keri Lake
- You Caroline Kepnes
About the Obsession & Desire trope
What Is the Obsession & Desire Trope?
Some love stories simmer. This one burns. The Obsession & Desire trope centres on a character whose feelings for another cross the line from longing into something far more consuming — a fixation that colours every thought, every decision, every quiet moment alone. It's romantic intensity turned all the way up, and readers come to it precisely because it refuses to be comfortable.
At its core, the trope is about the loss of emotional equilibrium. One character — sometimes both — becomes so preoccupied with another that the rest of their world starts to blur at the edges. That obsession can be tender or possessive, reciprocated or entirely one-sided, and the distinction matters enormously to how the story unfolds.
Why Readers Are Drawn to It
There's something deeply satisfying about reading a character who cannot stop thinking about someone. It externalises a feeling most people have experienced in some form — that particular madness of early longing, or love that's grown too large for ordinary language to hold. When fiction gives that feeling a voice, it tends to resonate hard.
The trope also creates immediate narrative tension. An obsessed character is rarely stable, rarely predictable, and almost never making the wisest choices. That instability keeps pages turning. Readers may find themselves simultaneously unsettled by the intensity and completely unable to look away — which is often the point.
How It Tends to Appear
Obsession & Desire shows up across a wide tonal spectrum. In darker romance and gothic fiction, the obsession is often one-sided at the start, the desiring character circling the object of their fixation with a kind of desperate patience. In fantasy romance, magical bonds or fated connections can amplify desire to an almost supernatural pitch, stripping away ordinary social restraint. Contemporary romance uses it more quietly — an ex who can't let go, a colleague whose professional composure cracks under the weight of wanting.
The variation that's gained enormous traction recently is the morally grey or outright villainous obsessive — a character whose fixation reads as threatening on the page but who the narrative frames with enough interiority that readers understand, even if they wouldn't excuse, the impulse. These are the stories that tend to provoke the most discussion, and often the most devoted readerships.
The Line Between Dark and Destructive
What separates compelling obsession from something that simply glamourises harm is usually craft — specifically, whether the author is in control of the moral framing. The best examples of this trope don't ask readers to wholesale approve of a character's fixation; they ask readers to sit with the complexity of it. Desire this intense warps judgement, and good writers show the warping without pretending it's consequence-free.
Reciprocity is another variable that changes everything. Mutual obsession, where both characters are equally undone by each other, reads very differently from a dynamic where only one person is consumed. Neither is inherently better, but they promise entirely different emotional experiences. If you want fiction that refuses to keep feelings at a polite, manageable distance, this is the trope for you.
Obsession & Desire Trope FAQs
- What is the Obsession & Desire trope?
- Some love stories simmer. This one burns. The Obsession & Desire trope centres on a character whose feelings for another cross the line from longing into something far more consuming — a fixation that colours every thought, every decision, every quiet moment alone.
- What are the best Obsession & Desire books?
- Popular books with the Obsession & Desire trope include The Secret History by Donna Tartt, If We Were Villains by M. L. Rio, Verity by Colleen Hoover, Nocticadia by Keri Lake and Gothikana by RuNyx.
- What book series have the Obsession & Desire trope?
- Book series featuring the Obsession & Desire trope include The Eating Woods and You.