Bookish and the Beast
Once Upon A Con #3
Ashley Poston
Every now and then, a character drops a line — a film quote, a throwaway mention of a beloved TV show, a joke that only works if you already know the source — and something clicks. The pop culture references trope is exactly what it sounds like: fiction that deliberately peppers its dialogue, narration, or character voice with nods to real-world (or shared fictional) cultural touchstones. Done well, it creates an immediate, almost conspiratorial warmth between the text and the reader.
Romance and fantasy are both fertile ground for it. A heroine who compares her situation to a specific 90s rom-com. A hero whose banter is half-built on film quotes. A group of friends whose shorthand is layered with references that signal their generation and sensibility. These moments aren't decoration — they're characterisation compressed into a single sentence.
Recognition is the engine here. When a reference lands, there's a little jolt of shared understanding — the reader feels seen, as if the author wrote it specifically for them. It collapses the distance between page and person. For contemporary romance especially, pop culture references help anchor a story firmly in a particular time and place, lending characters a texture that purely plot-driven details can't quite replicate.
There's also the matter of humour. References tend to arrive with a comedic charge, even when the surrounding scene is tender or tense. A well-timed quote can defuse a moment, or — perhaps more interestingly — can be used ironically, with the character fully aware they're reaching for a cultural cliché to avoid saying something real.
Contemporary romance leans hardest into this trope, and for good reason: the shared cultural landscape of streaming, music, and film gives modern characters a ready-made vocabulary for flirtation and emotional deflection alike. A character who bonds with a love interest over a niche 80s horror film is revealing something specific about themselves without a word of direct exposition.
Fantasy uses it differently. Secondary world fantasy largely avoids the trope by necessity, but urban fantasy and portal fantasy play with it constantly. A character dragged from the real world into a magical realm who keeps reaching for film references to process what they're seeing — that's both comedy and a genuine coping mechanism. Even in fully fictional settings, authors sometimes construct in-world cultural references that function exactly the same way, building a sense of a living, layered society.
New adult fiction and romantasy have increasingly embraced this approach too, particularly where a younger cast of characters reads as distinctly of-their-moment — playlists referenced by name, fandoms invoked, internet culture woven into the fabric of how people speak to each other.
The trope lives or dies on specificity and authenticity. A reference that feels genuinely characteristic of that person, in that moment, can be quietly brilliant. A reference dropped in because the author clearly wanted to seem current — that's a different matter entirely. Readers tend to notice the difference instinctively.
There's also a shelf-life question. Cultural references date. A joke rooted in a very specific moment of internet discourse may puzzle readers picking up the book five years later. The best authors in this space seem to understand which references are durable — the ones attached to works that have already proven they'll stick around — and which are just noise.
When the balance is right, though, pop culture references do something quietly sophisticated: they make fictional people feel like they actually grew up somewhere, watched things, cared about things. That's the difference between a character and a person.
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